Three Keys To Amazing Kissing

Remember that first kiss between you and your spouse?  Yep...it's probably not like that any more is it?  If you no longer lose your breath when you kiss each other don't worry, just try these three ideas if you want to get that spark back!

1.  Take kissing seriously.  If kissing is nothing more than a gesture you make before heading off for work every day, then you may be in danger of treating the kiss as a formality.  Perhaps we could say that the unexamined kiss is not worth giving?  Instead of staying in this rut, why not think about the kind of kiss your spouse would like, and aim to overdeliver just a bit?    
2. Alter the places where you kiss your spouse.  Lips, forehead, nose, cheek, neck, ear, shoulder, chest, boobs, back, butt, genitals, legs, feet...basically anywhere they have skin.  Experiment with these zones and find out what they respond to, or better yet, surprise them with a shower of kisses all over their body! Another way to change it up a bit would be to rest your hand gently on your spouse's cheek, the back of their head, or the side of their neck...that added touch helps to reassure them that you're into it. 

3. Don't think of kissing as only a prelude to sex.  Simply try to perfect the fine art of creative kissing and aim for light stimulation.  A great kiss can be just as breathtaking as a wham-bam between the sheets...try to remember what your first make-out sessions together were like if you don't believe us. 

Now, we're not suggesting that kissing is all about technique.  It isn't.  There is a lot more to a good kiss than knowing how to use your tongue.  Good kisses happen when there is mutual intensity, and by 'intensity' we don't necessarily mean racing heartbeats...a couple in their 70's can have as much intensity as one in their 20's if their relationship is grounded in genuine love.  In fact, because their marriage has stood the test of time, they might have even more intensity because there is a lot of history behind each kiss!  We are our most passionate when we see kissing as a gift to give rather than a tool to get something...we kiss in order to tell our spouse 'I love you' without using words. 
If you're looking for a little more kissing inspiration, click here.