Have you ever had this experience: you and your spouse are
together, the kids are asleep, the work week is over, and just as you are ready
to make your move, neither of you are feeling it anymore. Maybe you even tried
have a glass of wine (sorry teetotalers!), tell a couple jokes, and give a backrub, but no matter
what you try nothing seems to recapture that strong desire again. It looks like
you are both going to be going to bed without sex. This happens to every couple
once in a while, but if it becomes a pattern, you can make it very difficult
for your marriage. In cases like these you may want to consider using some sort
of a marital aid to enhance your physical relationship.
More believers are
turning to adult toys in order to bring back that spark, and Christianbed.com is one place where you can
get discrete shipping on all things related to Christian marital aids. Keep in
mind that devices like this are no substitute for a genuine bond or strong
communication, but they are merely meant to supplement what is already there,
and to introduce a new dimension into your lovemaking.
The consequences of
remaining virtually celibate while together can be disastrous on a
relationship, especially if one does not have accountability to somebody in the
church, so spouses please fight for your marriage and do everything you
possibly can to boost your commitment to one another both outside and inside
your bedrooms.
If you are feeling vulnerable about your relationship, you might
want to see a sex therapist who can help you as a Christian couple to regain
your passion. I’m not a big believer in sex
rules, but if there is one such list, then clearly the idea that Christian
marriages should be about ‘enjoying sex’ is on it. Then after that, go online
and do some browsing for a vibrator or something similar that will help rid you
out of any unhealthy patterns as a couple; the marriage demands it, and your
bodies will thank you afterwards.
So if you find that your spouse isn't as into it as they once were, exercise a little grace and talk with them about it openly. You may have to be the instigator here when it comes to being more active in the bedroom, and introducing the idea of a sex toy might be intimidating if you grew up in a really conservative church; but let's face it, sex is a gift from God and meant to be enjoyed between married couples however they like.
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