4 myths about married sex

1. Marriage means boring sex. The idea that getting married means that you can no longer go crazy in the bedroom is a pure lie.  In fact, let us encourage you to crank it up a notch tonight...after all, life is too short to be predictable...why not experiment a little bit?  Try the kitchen instead of the bedroom, for instance.

2. My spouse doesn't expect special treatment. Let's face it, we all like it when we get a little extra attention in the bedroom, and your spouse is no different.  They may not say it, but no woman has ever complained that the back massage was too good nor has any man turned down oral sex.  Finding out what your spouse likes, and doing that, usually improves married sex. We also want to avoid being demanding...just because we like something, doesn't mean our spouse likes doing it...it is perfectly fine to ask, but don't insist.  Go into the bedroom to give, and you'll be fine.
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3. If I keep doing the same thing, the same way, our sex life will be good. Variety is the spice of life, and that goes doubly for the bedroom.  Just like your diet, you should change it up frequently to keep it interesting.  If you need some inspiration, and who doesn't, check out this book for guidance!

4. It is about the body, not the eyes. Again, this is just nonsense...sex is as psychological as it is physical, and burying your face in the pillow hardly communicates, 'This is awesome-I love you!'  Make a point of watching each other, look into each other's eyes...don't stare, of course, that's just creepy, but try to make a connection with your gaze, not just your bodies.

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